Sometimes you just need to wear your hair in pigtail buns. Maybe you even need to tie a bow around just one of them! What I'm trying to say is that you should take chances with your look!!! To balance out the statement hair I wore a simple top (this one actually) that you could barely see my black brassiere through, dark blue jeans, a sparkly pendant necklace, and black flats.
As a rule I try to make 1 big and maybe 1 minor statement. Then I go simple with the rest so it's not a shock to the senses.